{"id":8214,"date":"2023-12-04T10:19:37","date_gmt":"2023-12-04T08:19:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/myperfectdog.lv\/?page_id=8214"},"modified":"2024-10-04T13:50:35","modified_gmt":"2024-10-04T11:50:35","slug":"vestule-tev-no-reaktiva-suna","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/myperfectdog.lv\/en\/izglitojosi\/vestule-tev-no-reaktiva-suna\/","title":{"rendered":"V\u0113stule TEV no reakt\u012bva su\u0146a"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t\t\t\t\"MyPerfectDog-New-logo_peach_plakans\"\n\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\"MyPerfectDog-New-logo_peach_plakans\"\n\t\t\t\t\""My\n

\n\t\tV\u0113stule Tev no reakt\u012bva su\u0146a\n\t<\/h2>\n\t

Es esmu apjucis… <\/p>\n

Kad esmu kop\u0101 ar saviem saimniekiem un m\u0113s esam vieni, viss p\u0101r\u0113jais pasaul\u0113 paliek maznoz\u012bm\u012bgs. Esam tikai m\u0113s. Saimnieki mani m\u012b\u013ci uzl\u016bko, glauda manas ausis un saka, ka esmu lab\u0101kais suns pasaul\u0113.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Es vi\u0146iem ticu. Mana aste priek\u0101 luncin\u0101s, es esmu laim\u012bgs.\u00a0<\/p>\n

ES ESMU LAB\u0100KAIS SUNS.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bet da\u017ereiz es t\u0101ds neesmu. Es vi\u0146us bied\u0113ju vai kaitinu, jo esmu nobijies, satraukts un nej\u016btos komfortabli. Da\u017ereiz mani p\u0101r\u0146em bailes, satraukums vai diskomforts. Saimnieki dusmojas, kad es reju, r\u016bcu, skrienu virs\u016b un da\u017ereiz ar\u012b m\u0113\u0123inu iekost. Vi\u0146i ir neapmierin\u0101ti, ka esmu nemier\u012bgs un jut\u012bgs pret ska\u0146\u0101m un kust\u012bb\u0101m apk\u0101rt\u0113j\u0101 pasaul\u0113.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Es dzirdu, ka cilv\u0113ki saka – esmu “reakt\u012bvs suns” – un ka maniem saimniekiem vajadz\u0113tu kaut ko ies\u0101kt. Ka es valdu p\u0101r vi\u0146u m\u0101j\u0101m un dz\u012bvi. Vai es to daru? Es vienk\u0101r\u0161i nej\u016btos komfortabli. Es nezinu, ko dar\u012bt un k\u0101 uzvesties, lai no nepat\u012bkamaj\u0101m situ\u0101cij\u0101m izvair\u012btos. Es vienk\u0101r\u0161i gribu justies dro\u0161i.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Kad biju jaun\u0101ks, m\u0113s ar saimniekiem visur g\u0101j\u0101m kop\u0101. Pasaule \u0161\u0137ita liela un draud\u012bga, uzb\u0101z\u012bga un bied\u0113jo\u0161a. Cilv\u0113ki mani aiztika, citi su\u0146i skr\u0113ja man kl\u0101t kop\u0101 ar saviem saimniekiem, kuri izmis\u012bgi kliedza: “Mans suns ir draudz\u012bgs!!!”. S\u0101kum\u0101 es biju mier\u012bgs un kluss… bet tad man n\u0101c\u0101s s\u0101kt par sevi past\u0101v\u0113t! Man vajadz\u0113ja pateikt pasaulei, lai t\u0101 p\u0101rst\u0101j ielauzties man\u0101 priv\u0101taj\u0101 telp\u0101, man\u0101 komforta zon\u0101. L\u016bdzu, l\u016bdzu, lieciet mani mier\u0101!\u00a0<\/p>\n

Es v\u0113los atsl\u0101bin\u0101ties, piedz\u012bvot un izzin\u0101t pasauli. Es gribu sajust visas br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bg\u0101s smar\u017eas – k\u0101 smar\u017eo z\u0101le, koki, citu dz\u012bvnieku atst\u0101t\u0101s “p\u0113das” un viss p\u0101r\u0113jais tur, \u0101r\u0101 eso\u0161ais! Es nesp\u0113ju tam tur\u0113ties pret\u012b. Bet t\u0101 viet\u0101 \u0101r\u0101 esmu hiperuzman\u012bgs un nep\u0101rtraukti sken\u0113ju apk\u0101rtni, lai paman\u012btu, vai taj\u0101 nesl\u0113pjas cilv\u0113ki, su\u0146i vai citi bied\u0113jo\u0161i rad\u012bjumi, kas, \u0161\u0137iet, nep\u0101rtraukti metas man pret\u012b.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Es dar\u012btu jebko, lai visu laiku b\u016btu VISLAB\u0100KAIS SUNS PASAUL\u0112.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Es nesaprotu, k\u0101p\u0113c reiz\u0113s, kad es saviem saimniekiem saku, ka j\u016btos nedro\u0161i, vi\u0146i mani nesaprot. Da\u017ereiz vi\u0146i mani mierina. Da\u017ereiz vi\u0146i sadusmojas un soda mani par to, ka nej\u016btos labi.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Vi\u0146i ir izm\u0113\u0123in\u0101ju\u0161i tik daudz apm\u0101c\u012bbas pieeju, ka doma par t\u0101m vien jau liek manam pr\u0101tam griezties. Vi\u0146i met man manus m\u012b\u013c\u0101kos gardumus, m\u0113\u0123ina b\u0101zt man tos sej\u0101. Es tagad nevaru \u0113st, es cen\u0161os izdz\u012bvot! Tad sekoja durst\u012bg\u0101 kaklasiksna, no kuras es nevar\u0113ju izb\u0113gt… Kaklasiksna, kas reiz\u0113m ne\u013c\u0101va man br\u012bvi elpot… Ier\u012bce uz kakla, kas s\u0101kum\u0101 satrauco\u0161i p\u012bkst\u0113ja un p\u0113c tam rad\u012bja man s\u0101pes ik reizi, kad es r\u0113ju, m\u0113\u0123inot pateikt: “Man vajag distanci! Man ir bail!\u00a0<\/p>\n

Es zinu, ka saimnieki mani m\u012bl no visas sirds un \u013coti, \u013coti cen\u0161as. Es gribu b\u016bt t\u0101ds suns, k\u0101du vi\u0146i mani v\u0113las redz\u0113t. Es gribu atbr\u012bvoties no bail\u0113m un trauksmes, no emocion\u0101l\u0101s p\u0101rslodzes, es gribu b\u016bt perfekts. Es tik \u013coti cen\u0161os, t\u0101pat k\u0101 vi\u0146i.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Ja satiec uz ielas t\u0101dus su\u0146us k\u0101 es, vai vari, l\u016bdzu, dot mums distanci? <\/p>\n

Vai vari dot mums laiku? L\u012bdzj\u016bt\u012bbu? <\/p>\n

L\u016bdzu, ne\u013caujiet savam sunim n\u0101kt man kl\u0101t. L\u016bdzu, neglaudiet mani.\u00a0 <\/p>\n

Es \u013coti cen\u0161os, goda v\u0101rds. <\/p>\n

Es no sirds v\u0113los b\u016bt LAB\u0100KAIS SUNS.\u00a0<\/p>\n\t

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Reaktivit\u0101te ir izplat\u012bts un noz\u012bm\u012bgs sazi\u0146as l\u012bdzeklis, ko su\u0146i izmanto, kad j\u016btas nedro\u0161i, satrauku\u0161ies vai nobiju\u0161ies. Tas ir veids, k\u0101 vi\u0146i pau\u017e diskomfortu vai s\u0101pes.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Reaktivit\u0101te NAV:<\/p>\n